Are you considering dating the enigmatic individual in the basement? In Stardew Valley, Sebastian is one of the most popular marriage candidates, known for his edgy personality, deep interests, and heartwarming story arc. Whether you’re new to Pelican Town or planning your next playthrough, this complete guide covers everything you need to know about Sebastian—including his schedule, best gifts, and heart events.
Who Is Sebastian in Stardew Valley?
Sebastian is a bachelor villager who lives in the mountains north of Pelican Town, in the carpenter’s house with his mother, Robin; stepfather, Demetrius; and half-sister, Maru. He’s a private, introverted character who spends most of his time indoors, working as a freelance programmer and occasionally riding his motorcycle.
He enjoys solitude, computer games, and rainy days—and opens up slowly over time.
💡 Did You Know? Sebastian becomes much more open and warm as you raise your heart level with him, revealing his passion for escape and creativity.
Can You Marry Sebastian?
Yes! Sebastian is a marriage candidate for all players (regardless of gender). You can marry him once you:
- Reach 10 hearts
- Give him a Bouquet (after 8 hearts)
- Offer a Mermaid’s Pendant
After marriage, he moves into your farmhouse and creates a special room in your house, along with an outdoor setup for his bike and a frog habitat.
Best Gifts for Sebastian
To boost your relationship faster, give him items he loves:
Loved Gifts:
- Frozen Tear
- Obsidian
- Pumpkin Soup
- Sashimi
- Void Egg
✅ Tip: You can give up to two gifts per week, plus an extra on his birthday (Winter 10) — which gives 8x the friendship points.
Sebastian’s Schedule (Updated for 1.6)
Sebastian has one of the most complex schedules in the game, often working at his computer or heading to the lake to smoke or reflect.
General Routine:
- On rainy days, he usually stays indoors in the basement.
- Clear Days (Spring): Goes to the lake at night.
- Fridays: Goes to the Saloon with Sam and Abigail.
- Winter: Spends more time at home or by the lake.
🧭 Note: His routine changes slightly based on the season, weather, and heart level. After certain heart events, he may visit new locations with you.
All Heart Events with Sebastian
2-Heart Event:
- You find him working at his computer.
- He talks about his programming job and frustrations with others interrupting him.
4-Heart Event:
- You join Sebastian on a rainy motorcycle ride into the city.
6-Heart Event:
- He opens up about wanting to escape the small-town life.
8-Heart Event:
- You help him with a game project and build trust as collaborators.
10-Heart Event:
- Romantic scene at the lake at night — Sebastian truly opens up.
14-Heart Event (Post-Marriage–v1.5+):
- Sebastian brings you into his creative journey and shares more about his passions.
Life After Marriage
Once married, Sebastian becomes more affectionate and may:
- Cook breakfast
- Repair fences
- Water crops
- Comment on the weather or your farm’s success
He’ll also express more emotional depth in his dialogues, including vulnerability and appreciation.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Where does Sebastian live in Stardew Valley?
Sebastian lives in the Carpenter’s House in the mountains, in the basement room to the left.
What is Sebastian’s favorite gift?
Sebastian loves Frozen Tear, Sashimi, Void Egg, and Obsidian — perfect for fast friendship boosts.
Can you marry Sebastian as a male character?
Yes! Stardew Valley allows same-gender marriage with all candidates, including Sebastian.
When is Sebastian’s birthday?
Winter 10. Giving him a loved gone’s birthday giftgives a significant friendship boost.
How do I trigger Sebastian’s 10-heart event?
Reach 10 hearts, go to the mountain lake between 8 PM and midnight on a day without rain.
Final Thoughts
Sebastian may seem distant at first, but he’s one of the most rewarding characters to romance in Stardew Valley. Behind the dark hoodie and sarcasm is a creative soul yearning for connection. Whether you’re seeking a loyal in-game partner or want to complete your heart event collection, Sebastian is an unforgettable choice in the valley.
Disclaimer:
This article is based on Stardew Valley version 1.6 (2025) and includes verified data from the official wiki, in-game testing, and ConcernedApe’s patch notes. Character details and routines may vary slightly with future updates.
